La Vita E Bella

Baby Envy...

One of our loan officers just brought Emma, his 2 week old baby girl into the office for introductions. She is one of the most beautiful babies I've seen in a long time. She had these chubby cheeks, and smelled like Johnsons baby lotion, and she was all dressed in a girly pink outfit with little pink socks.

Busy, Busy, Busy

Well, I’m back from my vacation from blogging. I didn’t really take the vacation intentionally, it just kind of happened. Not having a computer at home really stifles my ability to write when I actually have something to say. I can’t believe it’s Thursday already. I say this too much, but time really fly’s. Trei and I are a couple of days away from our 8 month anniversary! I know you don’t really count it as an “anniversary” until one year – but 8 months seems so long! Things have been really good. Every once in awhile, I dream about moving to California – but for the most part, I’m trying to settle into my life here in Reno. There’s no point in rushing to get out of here – I have absolutely no control over my future. Only God knows where I’ll be in the next 1, 5, 10 years of my life. My job is to sit back, trust in Him, and enjoy the ride. I’ve never been one to let go of control very easily. Now is the time to learn though, otherwise my time here, or anywhere I live, is going to be miserable. But it can be very hard – especially when I’m missing my family and wishing I were close to them.

Guess I'm It!

I've been tagged by my good friend Emily to be a part of this, oh so important task. I have taken my new role very seriously....guess you'll have to read on to see! Who will be tagged next??

April Showers.....

bring May flowers. But what does April snow bring? Yes, that's right, snow! Not the kind that sticks on the ground, but snow none the less. On my lunch break yesterday, I drove down to this board shop to buy myself this great summer halter.....but something just wasn't right when I was driving home in the snow. I guess that halter will be packed away for a few weeks! It really is too bad - Saturday was sunny, warm, and beautiful - something I got used to a little too quickly. Monday brought gloom, and the weeks forecast doesn't seem to look any better. So sad! 

Another Monday

Another weekend has come and gone. Mondays are always the worst – and usually the day that I struggle to keep my eyes open, especially after going to bed at 11:30. This weekend was very busy – but busy is good, so I can’t complain. Saturday started off nicely. Trei woke me up around 7:30 with breakfast in bed (yes, so sweet!) – after a little lounging, I met up with Melissa at the marina to go walking with the dogs, and I really enjoyed the “girl time”. We then made plans to run to the mall since both our husbands were working. On my way home from the walk, I got a frantic call from Trei. He had witnessed the aftermath of a motorcycle accident, and was disgusted at the sight of a man’s leg dangling by a piece of skin – and when I say his leg, I mean from the mid thigh, down. He was very freaked out by the experience, and I tried hard to listen without wanting to throw up in my lap. I hope I never have to observe that. Poor guy – at least he wasn't dead.

Reality Check

Before I was married, I had visions of myself morphing into this “Domestic Goddess” the day that I said “I Do”. The picture of perfection; working hard during the day, only to come home and tidy up the house while my delicious dinner is simmering on the stove. About 15 minutes before my husband comes home, I would put on a little lipstick and welcome him at the door with a kiss and warm greeting.

I was just a little off track. I wouldn’t call myself the “picture of perfection”, more like an average 23 year old, only I have cellulite and some funky hormonal breakout that won’t go away. After a hard day at work, I arrive home only to hop in my pajamas, take off my makeup and turn on the television, in the midst of dishes that need to be loaded, and clothes that need to be folded. When Trei walks in the door – I get up, kiss him and ask “So, what’s for dinner?”

Yes, I know, FAR from “Domestic Goddess”. I’m a failure…..Ha, just kidding. What was I thinking? I don’t think I knew how hard it would be to come home at night, after a 10+ hour day and be motivated to cook, clean and be merry! In a perfect world, I could probably wear that hat – and I’m sure there are hundreds of woman who take on all this responsibility and look flawless while they’re at it - but I just don’t think I’m one of those woman! Atleast for now. One day, when I’m not working a full-time job, I will embrace the role of “Domestic Goddess” with enthusiasm – and the day that I do, you’ll be the first to know!

I’m sure Trei will be shouting it from the rooftops too J

Just Another Weekend

And I thought my weeks flew by – the weekends go by much faster. Sometimes I wish that the work week was one day shorter. How nice would that be! Friday night after Trei had gone to bed, I stayed awake to watch the wedding DVD. It’s the only video I have that includes my family and friends. I haven’t seen the video since February, and of course, I cried and cried and cried. I’m a sap, I know! But that was just the most perfect day – and it always reminds me of the love of my family and friends. I miss everyone so much – but then again, I’m with Trei, and there really isn’t any place I’d rather be.

I Remember.....

I’ve talked about the magic of a memory – how we are tied to our past by a thought, a smell, a sight. I had so much fun writing the following. Sometimes dipping into your past can bring this indescribable sense of happiness. In 23 years of life I have experienced a whole lot – I can only imagine was 80 years would bring.

Lot's of Nonsense

The trees are starting to bloom - which is a sight for sore eyes. I am ready for the summer, more than I've ever been before. Winter in Reno isn't one to write home about, but summer makes up for it. Although I haven't been able to spend an entire summer here - the preview I've had during week long visits, is enough for me.

Reno really comes alive in the summer. They have a lot of huge events downtown, and the entire city attends. The snow melts in Tahoe, and you can drive around enjoying the scenery. Lake Pyramid is packed with camping families, and night time walks are looked forward to - not dreaded. In fact, Trei and I are so ready that we're already wearing our flip flops every chance we get - even when it's a brisk 40 degrees outside - I guess you can say we're overly optimistic. I'm already planning my summer wardrobe, and thinking about the little trips Trei and I will take on our days off. This Southern California girl is only comfortable when it's 80 degrees outside and she's in a tank top and skirt (with a golden tan ofcourse!). Although we've stayed at a consistent 50 degrees every week, I'm positive that the 70's will sweep in soon and I'll be in paradise.

Heeeey!

This weekend was a complete blast! Not for any particular reason....just because. Friday after work I stopped by Trei's parents house to use their computer. I got the re-acquaint myself with everyones blogs - I felt so much more enlightened (even though most weren't even updated!!) Atleast in the midst of my computer dilemma, I am able to post a little something. To all you blogging slackers, I say "Update!".