I apologize for being MIA. I've taken the past week to try and get things done around the house. I've also been making it a priority to spend more time with Trei and the kids when he's home from work. It's easy for me to hand him Lucas and Olivia when he walks in the door so I can go back to the office to work. I'm realizing the importance of taking time to really enjoy the evening and plug into conversation with my husband - even if it's happening amidst whining children, clanging of dishes, or the running of the vacuum. Bear with me as I try and work out this new routine of mine. Since I last wrote, I was graced with a visit from my parents. I can't describe how wonderful it is so have them in town. I really miss them, and sometimes long for the short distance we used to have between us. I wish they could be more of a daily/weekly part of our lives, instead of a monthly or quarterly part of it. It's hard. I'm a family gal - I thrive on time spent with people I love. Especially the ones called family. And although we see Trei's parents, sometimes it's once a week - at church - and I don't want to be greedy - but I could use more. More family time is always good.
So you can imagine the joy I had while my parents were here. It was just what I needed, and when I needed it. We spent time in conversation. Celebrating Olivia's birthday. Running around town. Just being together. Which is so very important to me. That my kids would know all their Grandparents intimately. That's the relationship I share(d) with mine - and I want it the same way for our kids.
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